How old is your child? 5mo
What’s his/her daily routine? wakes around 8
What’s nap routine? whenever he is tired, we are getting ready to start EASY
How long are naps? 20min to 1 hour
What's bedtime routine? Time? We aim for 7
Do you bottle or breastfed?? BF
How much? or how long? 10min
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed) one side
How many wakes per night? 3
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? he is still asleep when he grunts/groans
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry? he doesn't cry, he groans/makes straining noises
What have you tried to settle?? he back in a deep sleep as soon as I pick him up
What do you do for A time and how long is it? We play with toys, sing, walk around the house, watch tv (but I'm usually playing with him and toys at same time)
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? none
Have you introduced cereal? Why, how much, and how many times a day? (for LO’s under 6 months) Fruit/veggie in morning, cereal at night (about 1/2 cup with breast milk) he didn't seem to get enough to eat from me and he now loves his cereal
Do they have a prop? If so what is it? paci
Do they have a lovie? no
My DS doesn't like to take naps or go to bed. When he is tired and you lay him down (or even hold him so his tummy is up) he starts to cry, this would be the only time he cries. Once we soothe him and then put him to bed, he is fussy. For naptime, he will just lay there and babble, suck his feet or socks and practice whatever new noise he has learned. I've left him there for an hour and he hasn't gone to sleep. He gets excited when I go in to put his paci back in and he acts like he's taken a nap and is refreshed. However, he is then red eyed and tired and obviously needs a nap.
At night, we put him down and every hour until midnight or so, he is groaning/straining and making noises like he is uncomfortable. He will eat a little if I try to feed him, but not enough for me to think he was actually hungry. As soon as I pick him up and his head hits my shoulder he is back to a deep sleep. I just have to hold him for a few min and he's back to sleep. If I bring him into the bed with me (which I love to do, but really don't want to due to SIDS) he will sleep like a log sttn.
Sorry for the long post, just trying to explain everything best that I can.
My question (finally) does anyone have a suggestion to why he won't stay asleep at night and why he won't take a nap when he is clearly tired? I try not to let him get overtired during the day, but I swear he is just as happy with 20 minute naps as he is with an hour nap. My mum said I was the same way but she hasn't given me any helpful advice other than "you were the same way" It's almost as if he's convinced he is missing something and needs to wake up to make sure we are not having a great time without him.