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Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« on: May 08, 2008, 20:04:56 pm »
Hiya guys

Callie is almost 7 months now and it is time to get rid of that night feed.  It HAS to go!!

Background: 4 hour EASY, 6oz max at first 3 bottles, 7oz max for bedtime bottle. No DF as it gives us a 230am waking no matter what time we give it.  Until a week ago she had been having a 7oz bottle on her first waking and this had seen her through until morning.  She then went 4 nights without a feed (1 night she took 1oz).  Last night she was up at 1230 starving and drained 7oz. Wake up times can vary - usually between 230 and 4, but can be earlier.  If she wakes around 3am I only give 4oz otherwise it affects her morning feed.

HV told us to drop night feed cold turkey and only offer water but I can't really face that.  Not long since we did the cold/turkey breast-bottle so I am cold-turkey averse at the moment! 

So .... my plan is to give 1oz less every 3 nights.  BUT ... the varying wake up time confuses me.  If she is up at 3am I give her less otherwise she refuses morning feed. But how can I work this into the 'decreasing oz' plan?  Eg; if she woke at 130am I'd feed 7oz, but the next night she might wake at 4am and I'd give 4oz.  Not sure if I can make it work.  Can I reduce to 6oz and 3oz  then 5oz and 2oz kwim?  I've tried diluting but it made no difference, so don't want to go that route again. 

Think that covers it!  Thanks guys!
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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #1 on: May 08, 2008, 20:21:00 pm »
Nicola, there is a sticky around here somewhere about reducing the night feeds. One ounce less is a good idea,  the way mentioned in the FAQ was to reduce the scoops but keep the same ounces of water , it gradually gets down to just offering water. We tried this and it did work (we later regressed but nothing to do with the method  ;))   

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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #2 on: May 08, 2008, 20:29:31 pm »
Lee Ann thank you!

I didn't even think to look in FAQ - how naughty!!!

We did try to reduce oz but keep water the same but we just got more wake ups!

Off to look for that sticky xx
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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #3 on: May 08, 2008, 20:33:38 pm »
I have looked and cant find it,  it was by Leah's Mom though and her LO is 3 now so maybe it is away! LOL but I PM'd her and she was lovely, she basically reduced by one scoop every 3 nights and says she never reached the just plain water stage as her LO was STTN

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« Reply #4 on: May 08, 2008, 20:38:42 pm »
LOL glad it's not just me that can't find it!

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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #5 on: May 08, 2008, 20:44:15 pm »
Nicola, will anything else satisfy her when she wakes or is he truely hungry?? Finlay's night wakings were getting later and later until he got stuck at waking between half 4 and half 5! To me I was thinking if he could just go abit longer the nightfeeds would be gone!! When he woke he was too tired to feed and was taking a max of 3 oz so I tried just replacing his dummy and holding him/patt/shh-ing him and he'd go back to sleep until 6/half 6.  Right or wrong, it worked for us.  He has now slept through the night for 10 days solid.

He isnt really on an EASY routine as such but he goes 4 hourly between feeds.  He feeds at 6.30, 10.30, 2.30, 6.30 and we dreamfeed at 10.  He takes 6 oz each feed so hes taking a good amount of milk during the day which I think keeps him going through the night. My theory anyway!!

Good luck, your idea sounds good.  I hope it works xxxxx

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« Reply #6 on: May 08, 2008, 20:46:39 pm »
Found it!

https://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=46907.0  

Off to read it now

Clare - you posted as I did *hello!!*

No, nothing else will soothe her!! She's never had dummy, goes to sleep totally independenly and would FREAK if I started pat/shhing her!  Her nights were great until 3 mnths when she started feeding more during night due to reflux. 

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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #7 on: May 08, 2008, 20:53:30 pm »
Sorry just getting over the fact she is 7 months old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wow!

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« Reply #8 on: May 08, 2008, 21:02:29 pm »
Sorry just getting over the fact she is 7 months old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wow!

I know Emma!!  It's unreal.  I always think our BW babies seem to grow up so quickly. My sis is due in Sept and by then Callie will be almost 1!!! My goodness!

Right ... I have read thru the thread you mentioned Lee Ann.  I have to say I really didn't want to go down the road of diluting feeds again BUT it does make sense to me, particularly as the night feeds are impacting on the day feeds.  It also sounds more straight forward than wondering what to do with different timings of wakings etc.

So .... wish me luck!!! Think tonight might be a wash out as she had a great big vomit at bedtime and seemed to bring up everything so now doubt will be hungry earlier!

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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #9 on: May 09, 2008, 08:33:21 am »
I always say that!! My boys wouldnt get away with half as much as if they werent so unbelievably cute!!!  ;)

How did it go?? Poor Callie, its no fun when they throw up before bedtime, been there!! xxxxxx

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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #10 on: May 09, 2008, 08:41:44 am »
aww Nicola poor wee soul , hope your night went well!

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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #11 on: May 09, 2008, 10:10:28 am »
H'okies ...

She woke starving at 1130 and drained 7oz.  I didn't dilute bottle as there was just no point since she'd been sick.  She then slept til 6am and took a 6oz bottle, went back to sleep til 8am.  However, that totally mucked up morning!!

So, tonight I am diluting bottle and offering only water (or 2oz water 1 oz formula) for second/early morning waking. 

She is totally hungry when she wakes at night.  As the ladies discussed in that other post, their kiddies have learned to be hungry at night so it's not just habitul waking to get rid of. Anyway .. we'll see what tonight brings.
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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #12 on: May 09, 2008, 11:08:50 am »
Nicola - it does sound like it is hunger if she can down 7oz and her wake up times are random. It took me until 11 months to pluck up the courage to wean bottles in the night as I knew she was using them as a prop to go back to sleep. One day she practically ate her own body weight in food so i KNEW she wouldnt be hungry when she woke so I chose that night to do it. 

also my confession I weaned her and she regressed every time she was ill or teething , she wanted milk. She is 2 now and still wakes for a drink in the night, I have battled it since she was 4 months old but at last she is old enough to help herself so I let her and I can stay asleep LOL and for the moment it doesnt impact daytime eating so I allow it, at least I am pro at weaning it when the time comes LOL DS is 9 and he STILL wakes for a drink in the night, I breed thirsty kids!  ;)

You are doing a fab job, also well done on not being tempted to do it after she was sick .you are a great mummy  :-*

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« Reply #13 on: May 09, 2008, 16:04:42 pm »
LOL Leeann. Heck, I still wake in the night and want a drink!
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Re: Help me get rid of this night feed please!
« Reply #14 on: May 09, 2008, 19:01:17 pm »
Yup, Ciara has water in bed with her every night and I ALWAYS have a pint of water too.
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