Ok, everythign is a mess with C right now. He's almost 4 months. 30-45 min naps are pretty much the norm these days. But he wasn't eating well either, so I know it's time for 4 hour EASY with eating, but he can't seem to extend his naps. I *think* that this is our main problem...
For the first A time of the day, he's just still so tired from the night that there's no way I can keep him up even 1.5 hours is pushing it. I just can't seem to get that first one right. I think honestly, when he wakes at 6:30 or 7, he's waking cuz he's hungry and if I treated it like a middle of the night feed, he'd just go right back to sleep. Problem is his diaper is usually about to leak (often does if he poos during the feed) and he has been sleeping 12 hours so it seems like he should get up.
Everythign is just so difficult with him and I just don't know which problem to tackle first, but I think if he would have that first cycle worked out, the rest would fall into place.
Generally the rest of the day, if he's well rested, he can handle 1 h 45 mins A time and I can stretch it to 2 hours by having the last 15 mins wiht a longer wind down (usually he just wants to go to his room and quickly get down in his bed.
Does anyone have any ideas for this?
Sorry, I have no idea what forum to put this. It seems like a short nap problem, but who knows!