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8 month old with new NW
« on: June 09, 2008, 17:43:37 pm »
My DD2 is 8 months old and has reflux that is being treated (but will be reviewed by her paed next week since there are new NWs, I wonder if that's part of the problem).  She is BF and we started solids a few weeks ago.  She eats small amounts of chicken and bananas and some 'nutrios' (cheerio-type cereal).  We're doing BLW, and a lot of the foods we've tried have made her reflux flare up so we are going extra slow.  She has a meal in the morning (1/4 banana, handful of nutrios) and at dinner (1 tablespoon of minced chicken and a few nutrios).  We tried weaning her from her swaddle two weeks ago, completely unsuccessfully, she had extra NWs and EWs and short naps.  I tried it for a week and then gave up.

She has had 1 NW for a feed since she was 7 weeks old.  I truly don't mind getting up and feeding her at that time (it was between 3 and 5 am) because she has reflux and likely takes smaller feeds through the day as a result.  She always went right back down and woke at 7 for the day.  Now, she is up twice, at 1:00 and 4:30 (or thereabouts) and up for the day at 6:30.  She feeds both times and goes right back down.  Or if she only wakes up once at 2:30, she's up at 5 again for a feed and the day.

Our routine looks like this during the day:

6:30 Awake
7:00 E, A
9:30 S
11:30 E, A
2:30 S
4:00 E, A
6:30 E
7:00 Bed

She has no props, settles independently.  Her room now has a room-darkening blind, but that didn't stop the NWs last night.  I tried pat/shh for both NWs last night and the night before, but she just remains awake (and escalates) until I feed her.  If I was feeding her a lot of solids, I would think that she is filling up on solids in the day but still needs the milk, hence the waking at night.  I stopped feeding her solids for 2 days last week to see if it would make any difference but the waking continued.

I posted on general sleep back when I initially got rid of the swaddle because we had prop (swaddle) issues, NWs, EWs, short naps, etc.  but now it's just a NW issue for the most part and I wanted some fresh perspective on it.  Hope that's OK! :)  TIA!!
Nicole - Mom to My Lovely Girls


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Re: 8 month old with new NW
« Reply #1 on: June 10, 2008, 04:21:54 am »
hugs nicole!  i know you've been struggling with it  :-[

your routine looks great.  that's exactly what we were doing at 8 months except DD was taking 3 large solids meals as well.

maybe she's just hungry?  is she eating a lot for the night feeds?  could she be ready to eat a bit more?
   

   


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Re: 8 month old with new NW
« Reply #2 on: June 10, 2008, 04:42:39 am »
Aw, thanks Brenda!  :-*  I've been trying so hard to figure this out.  She is really happy eating solids, it's just such slow going since her reflux flares with lots of things - it makes me scared to try more with her.  Tomorrow I'll start with Tofu and keep with the bananas and chicken.  Yummy, huh!?

I tried to fit in an extra milk feeding today, but she only took one side then and one side at her usual time, so it was the full feeding split in two.  ???  She takes one full feed and one 1/2 feed  at night (but won't settle without) and she eats a full feed when she wakes up for the day too.

I wonder if it's her reflux?  We have an appt with the paed next week, maybe she'll want to switch her med.
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Re: 8 month old with new NW
« Reply #3 on: June 10, 2008, 05:49:03 am »
Nicole :-*

We having rubbish NWs too, so I sympathise. 

When we were BFing and not really doing much meds (as we couldnt get them into her) Callie's reflux seemed to cause NWs.  Also, couldn't up the day calories as she wouldn't take a bottle and wouldn't be persuaded to take any extra from breast. 

I think it will be interesting to see what your pead says about reflux and to see whether a change in meds sorts things out for you.  If not then maybe it is time to try to wean 1 night feed and see if she compensates by taking in extra during the day.

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Re: 8 month old with new NW
« Reply #4 on: June 10, 2008, 14:08:01 pm »
A change of meds would be a nice easy fix!  That being said, she still had 2 NWs last night, one at 10:00 (settled herself) and one at 3 so it was a much better night for me!  I sure needed it! :)  Oh and up for the day at 6:30.  I wonder if trying that extra feed helped, or what the difference was. :-*
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Re: 8 month old with new NW
« Reply #5 on: June 10, 2008, 14:08:53 pm »
Ah bliss!!!

Wanna swap bubbas ;)
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Re: 8 month old with new NW
« Reply #6 on: June 10, 2008, 14:51:25 pm »
Well, wait one more night and I'll let ya know! ;)
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Re: 8 month old with new NW
« Reply #7 on: June 10, 2008, 14:57:09 pm »
;) :-*
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Re: 8 month old with new NW
« Reply #8 on: June 10, 2008, 17:31:55 pm »
 :D  i hope it continues for you!  :-*