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I'm struggling to read my baby's cues!
« on: August 05, 2008, 13:57:30 pm »
Hey folks - OK so my DS is 6 months tomorrow and for the last while I'm really struggling to read his tired cues. He can self-soothe and he can sleep for decent naps - up to to 2 hours sometimes. But I just can't work out what his A time is. Things are complicated by the fact that he's still waking twice at night and often wakes very early too. I also have a toddler of 2.5 so I'm not able to spend ages pat/shhing - anyway when I have tried that it tends to enrage him!

For example this morning - he woke at 6.15 then went back for half an hour from 7 -7.30. He then had a 2 hour nap from 10 - 12. He was yawning a lot at 1.30 so I tried to put him down, but he's still not asleep and it's now 2.50!!! I'm not sure if he's UT/OT or just plain awkward. He could be teething but not obviously so! It's so frustrating!

So my question is - what is the range of A time for a 6 month old? And why would he be yawning only an hour and a half after he woke up from a really good 2 hour nap?

Any tips/ideas?

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Re: I'm struggling to read my baby's cues!
« Reply #1 on: August 05, 2008, 14:12:53 pm »
He actually fell asleep just after I wrote this - let's see how long he sleeps for!

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Re: I'm struggling to read my baby's cues!
« Reply #2 on: August 05, 2008, 14:31:46 pm »
Hi Anna,
I just wrote this to another girl that was havingtroubles with the same thing.  So I thought that I would post it for you also.
Malakai is a textbook baby and this applies to everything.  His routine runs to the seconds not minutes.  So if I miss cues or jump on early cues then we have a battle on our hands.  Thats great for us because I can predict what he needs most of the time.  EG.  There are 3 stages I find to his getting tired phase.  Stage one He starts with short bursts like a scream but not  If I put him down for a nap now I have no hope he is not really ready he is just saying that he wants less to be happening so he can wind down.  If he does sleep it is usually approx 30 min  Stage 2 he rubs his eyes.  If I put him down for a nap/sleep now he will put himself to sleep and sleep until I wake him up.  Stage 3.  He is yawning.  If he makes it to this stage he is overtired  and again approx 30 min is all I will get from him.  The time between the stages varies depending on what how active his A time was.  It can be 5 min from stage 1 to 3 but it can also be like 20 min.  As for the OT UT times - I'm not sure about that because Malakai will sleep approx 30 min under both situations.  I guess you just learn your child and how they respond under different circumstances.
We have followed EASY since about 2 months old so for 2 months now we have been on 3, 3.5 and now 4 hour EASY.  Growth spurts do effect but I find at night more so.  Naps are not usually affected with us. 
Maybe the teething is effecting her.  Did you say that she was teething also.  Apparently babies temperatures rise when the teething may be effecting them, so that might be something that you could try.  I would be saying cues and teething are the most likely.  Are you sure that your LO is getting enough to eat during the day this can also effect sleep at night.  I find this is the biggest thing when bubs is waking at night.  As your LO is 6 months this is the next growth spurt and he may need more to eat to help him grow.

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Re: I'm struggling to read my baby's cues!
« Reply #3 on: August 05, 2008, 14:37:07 pm »
Hi there Anna
Here is my EASY My bubs is 4 months old so it might be a little different to yours but maybe it will help you in some way.
0600- EAT
0630- ACTIVITY
0830 - SLEEP
1000 - EAT
1030 - ACTIVITY
1230 - SLEEP
1400 - EAT
1430 - ACTIVITY
1630 - SLEEP
1730 - EAT
1800 - Bath, wind down
1830/1900 SLEEP
2230/2300 - DF

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