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19 month old not napping without rocking
« on: August 22, 2008, 17:38:02 pm »
I have a 19 month old ds.  He sleeps all night, takes good long naps, and falls asleep quickly.  However, he has to be rocked.  Especially at naptime.  We had been rocking him and have cut it down to only a few minutes.  At night he does fine, he usually cries for about 3 minutes, then he sleeps for the rest of the night.  At night we can put him straight into bed at bedtime and he'll cry for a few minutes, then go to sleep.  But at naptime, if he doesn't fall asleep while being rocked, then he won't take a nap.  He cries for a minute, then starts talking and playing in his crib.  I want to wean from rocking completely, because I'm pregnant and it hurts my belly and breasts to hold this 30 lb. kid in my lap to rock him.  We are also planning to move him to a big boy bed soon (within the next month or two).  Plus in September, he will be starting sort of like a daycare, and of course with 6 other toddlers, the teachers aren't going to rock them all for 10 minutes before naptime.  I don't mind how things are at night, but during the day, as I said, he'll just talk to himself for the 2 hours he's supposed to be napping.  I don't want to be giving up his nap this early, so what do I do?
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Re: 19 month old not napping without rocking
« Reply #1 on: August 22, 2008, 17:43:41 pm »
Added info- I want to try to avoid making a later naptime, at the day care he will be going down for a nap at 12, as he has been at home.
Routine is:
7:00-7:30- wake up, eat breakfast
11:00- no snack, eats lunch
12:00-naptime
2-2:30-wake from nap, have a snack
4:00- have dinner
6-6:30-have a snack
7:00-bedtime
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Re: 19 month old not napping without rocking
« Reply #2 on: August 22, 2008, 18:01:50 pm »
have you tried the WI/WO or with my youngest we happened to have a bed in her room with the crib and I would just lay down too so she would see me sleeping and that worked really well(plus it gives you an exuse to lay down too!)

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Re: 19 month old not napping without rocking
« Reply #3 on: August 23, 2008, 08:47:35 am »
Have you tried pick up put down routine ( that is the only programme i have seen on b w ), it seemed to work then.

Any know what days b w is on in the uk ???

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Re: 19 month old not napping without rocking
« Reply #4 on: August 23, 2008, 20:24:51 pm »
i had this prob ith my DS right up to when i was 9 mos pregnant! so i get it, i would do a gw(gradual withdrawal) try not rocking but holding to sleep to remove the need for motion, then hold for a few mins till calm then place in cot and hold hand on back then try to remove hand then step back and soothe with words then do wiw/Wo

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Re: 19 month old not napping without rocking
« Reply #5 on: August 23, 2008, 23:46:37 pm »
Thanks for all of the advice, I think it's getting better.
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