Thanks for all the suggestions.
I have to be honest, I have been using Tide with Febreeze cloths detergent, fabric softner and dyer sheets :-0 I just recently started washing his cloths in ALL clear with Downy clear fabric softner and dryer sheets.
Then it occured to me, that he could be super sensitive and just touching our cloths against him could affect his skin.
If it was the cloths detergent though, why would it just be on his face, legs, arms and well his belly and back now has a very faint rash on it too.. So never mind.
Switching to ALL clear for everything now and getting rid of the other stuff.
I also bought some Cetaphil bar of cleaner to bath him.
We got our determologist appt moved up to December 19th

Yeah....