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Offline leycourt

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How long can I hold off solids?
« on: January 02, 2009, 20:55:26 pm »
I have binned weaning - we tried from 18 weeks (12 corrected) on medical advice and I am sick of the battle. We tried baby led and baby is not ready.

I would have thought I could wait until LO is older - say another 2-3 months before weaning. I would have thought this would be ok. she drinks 18oz of Nutramigen in 24 hours and is rather too chubby as it is !

Anyone know any reason why not - we don't see a pead until 10 March.


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Re: How long can I hold off solids?
« Reply #1 on: January 04, 2009, 03:29:13 am »
I'm so sorry that you feel pressured to start solids when your lo was still so young (12 wks corrected).  Here are some links to explain why it is important to wait till at least 6 mos to introduce solids.  The site is geared towards breastfed babies but formula-fed babies are also include  in the recommendation to wait till at least 6 mos.

Why delay solids:  http://www.kellymom.com/nutrition/solids/delay-solids.html
When baby will be ready:  http://www.kellymom.com/nutrition/solids/solids-when.html

Is there a specific reason why your ped may suggest solids at this age?  I know that some reflux babies are encouraged to start solids early (4 mos) by their drs.  Could you have a talk with your ped again before Mar?


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Re: How long can I hold off solids?
« Reply #2 on: January 04, 2009, 03:39:31 am »
I delayed starting solids with my DD2 until 7.5 months, and we really took things slow.  She is a refluxer and I had a strong suspicion that solids were not going to be a walk in the park.  I was right, it was terrible.  All the cereals made her reflux worse, she had a reaction to rice cereal, she ate very little and arched through every meal.  We generally were both in tears every meal time.  Our paed at the time was not willing to change her meds from Zantac and told me that since Hayden was only in the 25th percentile that I needed her to gain weight and push the solids.  Things only changed for us after I finally got referred to another paed who immediately put Hayden on Prevacid at 11 months, and we haven't looked back.  She'll eat anything and everything and has no reflux issues at all (still on meds).

I think I recall your username from the reflux board, so if your LO is suffering with reflux, there's no need to push solids at this point, or even when she reaches 6 months adjusted.  Lots of refluxers have issues with solids, and can develop food aversions from the pain and discomfort they feel from eating.  I was told by the infant development specialists that saw Hayden that as long as she was getting some solid food by 8 months and could handle a meal by 12 months that she would be fine.

I'm not an infant development specialist (obviously), but I just thought I'd share my experience so you wouldn't feel bad about starting your LO when it's already a battle anyways and there are lots of good reasons to delay.  :-*
Nicole - Mom to My Lovely Girls


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Re: How long can I hold off solids?
« Reply #3 on: January 04, 2009, 03:52:08 am »
Thank you Nicole for your story.  DD was also a refluxer and her ped recommended that she start solids at 4 mos.  It was NOT a fun experiment for either of us.  After several visits to the feeding clinic (for possible food aversion) and differents meds, I gave up on expecting dd to eat like other babies.  We went BLW and it was so much more enjoyable for the both of us. 

Nicole made a good point about asking for a second opinion.  Hugs.

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Re: How long can I hold off solids?
« Reply #4 on: January 04, 2009, 12:29:27 pm »
That's an idea.

We were told to wean early to prevent DD needing surgery for her reflux as she was so sick and they wanted to see if in essence thickened milk with cereal would help. We weaned my DS at 12 weeks corrected and had no trouble - sticking to Neocate with baby rice and some banana until he was 6 months old - then some other veg and fruit until 6 months corrected. He wouldn't eat lumps until 2 years old! As a result he has very delayed speach. His dairy allergy which he had as a baby is coming back now at 2.5years!
My DD's reflux is if anything worse. She is still very sick and the doctors have said we have tried every med possible in the uk which we have. The doses are right. So our choices are grow out of it or surgery (no thanks).
I am going to wait until she is older I think then.


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Re: How long can I hold off solids?
« Reply #5 on: January 04, 2009, 12:39:59 pm »
A friend of mine waited till her lo was 10 months to start solids, on the advice of her ped.  I don't know if there were specific reasons, I got the impression that is just his philosophy in general.  He progressed very quickly to finger foods and as far as I know is eating everything now (18 months).

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