Gosh, no answers really, but I just wanted to encourage you and offer a hug...
If she's only crying an hour , that's not too bad given how old she is. I weaned my LO off his at 6months and he cried 1.5 hours while my heart broke. But after 3 nights he didn't cry anymore. After 2 weeks he found a paci under a chair and didn't even want it. I know it's hard, but sounds like you are off to an Ok start.... hugs.. hoping someone else has good advice...