Hello. Thank you so much for this online community. It has gotten me through this first week on EASY with my 11 week dd.
Prior to EASY, I was feeding her every four hours from 8-8 and she would wake up twice at night. She would take naps in between most feeds, sometimes in her stroller, sometimes in her crib, sometimes in her bouncy seat. And if I had to I would put her on the breast to calm her down and get her to sleep. Last week, though things changed and she was very cranky and overtired for several days. She was constantly crying and miserable. I think she was overstimulated. I knew I had to teach her to self sooth. A friend told me about Tracy, so here I am.
The problem I'm having is short naps. My dd is very alert so when she wakes up in the middle of a nap it is impossible to get her back down. In between the smiles she gives me are the yawns. I do shh-pat, with limited success. When she's crying, how much shh-patting do I do before I leave the room? Any other tips on how to handle this?
I've become so devoted to helping her sleep, I've hardly left the apartment this week and have stopped putting her in her stroller for walks. This has not been easy on me, and I'm not sure what to do. I really want her to fall asleep on her own.
Here's today's schedule so far:
I have her on a 3 hour EASY, but should she be on a 3.5 or four hour? She was getting enough to eat when I fed her every four hours.
6am wake and feed (I want this to be 7am)
7am sleep (we had a rough night and I had no trouble getting her down.)
9am wake and feed (Her only activity was a diaper change. It took me half an hour of shhing and rocking to get her to sleep.)
11:10am sleep
11:40 wake (when she woe up she let out a quick cry then quietly played in her crib)
12:15pm I picked her up out of her crib to feed
1:40pm sleep
2pm awake
From here it's been a battle to get her to sleep. At 3pm I fed her and after a few minutes she fell asleep on my breast, so I put her into her crib, but that woke her. I've been in and out of her room shh-patting. She's slept for a few minutes at a time. I started feeding her at 4pm and again she's falling asleep. I took her off the breast at 5 and put her in her bouncy chair. She's been content for the past 20 minutes, but shouldn't she be exhausted??? I guess I'll start another feed a 6 and put her to bed.
One more thing, I do swaddle her, but I started letting her arms out this week because she started sucking on her fingers. I tried the Aussie Swaddle, but I can't get it tight enough to make it work.
I'd really appreciate any advice. I'm so confused.
Regards,
Rita