I'm back again for help. My 3 month old lo is still taking 45 min naps and is soooo tired by the end of the day. I am having trouble teaching her to self soothe. I know she can do it because she sleeps through the night. She also wakes super early- 6am, when she eats at 7am. Here is our schedule
wakes between 545 and 615, but is not hungry, esp if she wakes during the night to eat.
E 700-740
A 740-8, start winddown to sleep
S 815-9
A or S 9-10 trying to pat her back to sleep, end up picking her up to pat, which sometimes works
E 10-1045
A 1045-1100, start putting her to sleep
S 1120 ish-1215ish, maybe until 1
E 1-145
A 145-205
S 220-315
E 400
A
S 515-615
630 bath
&00 nurse and bed
She is so wide awake (but tired) when she wakes, little seems to calm her. She is a very active baby. Her room is dark and we use the same winddown routine every time. Shh/pat doesn"t work and pu/pd definitely doesn't work since it just wakes her up more. I have been trying to keep her awake time limited to an hour before I put her to sleep. I tried increasing it, which didn't work either since she cried before going to sleep, which she normally doesn't do. We have done 2 short naps with activity in between, but that often doesn't work either since she is still tired when she wakes after 45 min.
I am at a loss and am so frustrated. What else can I do?
One more question... her last nap is usually short, which is fine since it is so close to bedtime. However, she usually sleeps from 515/530 to about 615/630, takes a bath at 630 and then eats at 7 and is in bed by 745/8 right after eating. Is that too short a time between her last nap and bed? She cries from when she wakes up from her nap until she eats and goes to bed. She is quiet in the bath but then cries the rest of the time.