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Offline mummyG

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13 months old waking every 1-2 hours.
« on: April 27, 2009, 11:22:33 am »
Hi, I wonder if anyone might have some advice for me.  I am a first time mum and up until recently I've had a pretty good routine with my baby.  He used to go down happily awake and only would wake once or twice a night because he'd lost the dummy but recently for no apparant reason he just cries and cries when I put him in his cot.  If i go in, he will be standing up waiting for me to go in sobbing and as soon as i pick him up he is asleep but the moment i go to lay him down he freaks out! When i eventually get him to lie asleep in his own bed it's only a matter of an hour before he is awake crying again.  I thought it might be teething but the last few night he has been sleeping in my bed and although very fidgety he sleeps much better.  I've put in down to either bad dreams as some times he sobs even though he seems to be asleep or separation anxiety because he is very clingy and only wants me to cuddle him and rock him to sleep.  I realise I am doing the worst thing by putting him my bed but this has been going on for weeks now and nothing else seems to work! I've tried leaving him to cry and keep going in to him but he just becomes hysterical and has a tantrum when i leave the room-i can't see that technique ever working.  I'm wondering whether he will just grow out of it as he has slept better before or if anyone has any other suggestions?

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Re: 13 months old waking every 1-2 hours.
« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2009, 18:21:35 pm »
sounds like a bit of separation anxiety as well as some AP and now he's wanting to sleep with you.  which technique did you use in the first place to teach independent sleep?  it may be worth going back to what worked before and being very consistent with him.  not letting him come to bed with you and not taking him out of the bed when he cries for extra cuddles - comfort in the crib only.

also - he's 13 mo...what are his naps like?  is he on 1 or 2 naps?  post your routine, something may need a tweak there as well but i think your biggest problem is the AP. 

teething pain might be part too??

if he was a good sleeper before he'll get back to that probably fairly easily if you are consistent.