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Offline EZ-EMom

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16 m.o. - refusing to drop a.m. cat nap
« on: July 06, 2009, 17:53:08 pm »
E is now 16 months (wow!), and he is refusing to give up his morning cat nap.  Right now, his routine is:

6:30 am - Wake/Breakfast
9:30 am - Snack
10:45 am - Nap
11:00 - Wake (we wake him at 15 min, otherwise he'll sleep 45 min and then refuse the p.m. nap)
12:00 - Lunch
1:45 - Nap (can take up to 15 minutes to fall asleep)
4:00 - Wake (Sometimes he sleeps to 4, sometimes to 3:30 and then plays quietly until we get him)
4:15 - Snack
6:00 - Dinner
7:15ish - Bed

He is happy during the day, and no EW.  I just can't believe, though, that the 15 minute catnap is restorative.  Last Saturday, I tried pushing him to noon, so we had lunch at 11:15.  At lunch, he was so tired that he pushed all the food off his tray, laid his head down and went to sleep!  Just *bonk*, sound asleep on his highchair tray.  Sunday, I tried something similar, and by 11:30, he was shaking his crib, pointing inside and crying. 

If I let him nap from 11:30 to 2:00 or 2:30 (as I think is suggested in BWSAYP), he wakes every half hour crying during the nap, then he is OT by bedtime, and we get 5am EW from OT.  I can't push back his bedtime too much earlier, though, or else we get 5:30/6:00 EW because he's done sleeping, which then means he's too tired to make it to 11:30 or noon for his nap which means...AHH!  VICIOUS CIRCLE!  Any ideas on how to squeeze that extra half hour out of him and get rid of this 15 minutes?

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Re: 16 m.o. - refusing to drop a.m. cat nap
« Reply #1 on: July 06, 2009, 18:24:56 pm »
Hi,
I am no expert and my lo is a bit yonger, but to me it sounds like ur lo is not ready to drop his am nap. Maybe u could wait a few weeks and see if he gives u any signs? I found with my dd that she much more prefers her am nap and at times has trouble with the pm one.

Maybe u can find some usefull info here:
http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=145344.0

http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=41952.0

Best of luck

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Re: 16 m.o. - refusing to drop a.m. cat nap
« Reply #2 on: July 07, 2009, 01:16:36 am »
Hi- My LO kept his AM catnap till 19 mos!! Not all kids go easily to 1 nap, and some just take their time getting there. I'd say as long as the PM nap isn't being refused, you may consider keeping the schedule as is- don't fix what's not yet broken. Your LO will definitely show you signs that it's time to switch- with nap skipping, bedtime problems, etc etc.
Hugs- I found it frustrating that my kid took so long, but he's so energetic that 15 min catnap did the trick to keep him going till noon.
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