Thanks a lot everyone for your thoughts, it is so hard to figure out!!! And the more I read on here and Kellysmom ans LLL about possible issues I am going crosseyed!!
We had a really bad day yestereday, really green mucousy poop and seriously fussy, to the point of screaming (this is new) a mixture of overtiredness from being unable to settle because she just seemed so uncomfortable.
The more I look at the symptoms lists I am stilil torn between: oversupply/milk protein intolerance and reflux....*sigh*. Saturday PM i had cereal for supper and again yesterday morning, quit a bit more dairy than I ususally eat so that has thrown me again.
MIlena: thanks for that, when i said I was feeding 1.5 hours that was cluster feeding in the evening, generally DD will go 2.5 to 3 hours bewteen feeds and we are doing single-sided feeding. I do get very 'full' and she generally eats well during the day for at least 30 minutes and has some good burps, so I am thinking this will settle the oversupply if that in fact is the culprit?? She has even adjust to "sipping" (going on and off the breast for a few minutes) when she starts to feed (clever girl!).
This morning (and through the night) her poos have gone back to yellow but still seem mucousy and she had a great night.
Jiinx, you described our day yesterday, by the end of the day it was craziness trying to calm her and get her to try and sleep. Finally the only thing that calmed her was an UBER swaddle, the pitch black bathroom, swaying and running the hairdryer!! But after bath and feed she fell into a COMA and slept for 4.5 hours!
It is so strange because she has been soooo mellow up to this point and I know she is only 5 weeks and settling in and could very well just be adjusting to it all but I cant in good conscience not try and figure out a way to help her IYKWIM?
We have a ped. check up this morning but her ped is sooo anti dairy it seems to be her answer for everytihng so I suspect she will tell me to stop eating dairy *sigh*.
I really suspect oversupply and hope I can get it under control, we'll see with her weight gain etc... but she really does have a huge amount of wet and dirty diapers, the green (undigested milk) poos, the spitting up, getting rid of excess, gassiness from too much foremilk..... It is a shame because I have stopped pumping, twas nice to have DH give her a bottle once in awhile!!
Thanks again, will let you know how it goes at the ped!