Thanks for replying
Every day seems to be different this last week and over this time he's not been very well (chesty cough...thought he may have been teething last week) but here are some example days from this last week
Wednesday went like this
6.30 wake up
nap 9.30-11am
nap 1.30pm - 3pm (had been swimming and was shattered so fell asleep in car and stayed asleep whenm i transferred him to cot!)
bed 6.30pm
(then woke at 5.45!)
(can't remember other days in between but then...
Sunday:
5.50 wake up
8.40 - 10.20 nap 1
1.20 - 1.50 nap 2
4.30 - 4.50 nap 3 (I woke him up after 20 mins he doesn't often have a catnap anymore)
7.15 alseep
Today:
Awake 5.50am
9.00-9.30 nap 1
12.40 -2.40 on and off nap 2 (woke after 30 mins, I left him, he went back to sleep 10 mins later, woke again 10 mins after that. Gave him a dummy slept for another 20 mins woke screaming. I went in and he fell asleep in my arms and I lay down with him and he slept again until 2.40
7pm bed
I should add here that just over a week ago he was doing long naps without needing me to extend them. I think him needing the dummy or a cuddle is down to him being under the weather (although his general mood hasn't been too bad today)
I know we're a bit all over the place but these 11 hour nights happen evern when he has 2 good 1.5 hour naps