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12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« on: July 29, 2010, 13:00:12 pm »
hello! so, my youngest, samuel has been a 12 hour night sleeper for a long time. his bedtime has been 6:30pm and he would always sleep until 6:30am. a couple of months ago he started waking up before 6:00, so i simply cut his nap from 3.5 hours down to 2.5 hours and that did the trick. about a week ago he went from sleeping until 6:30am to sleeping until 6:00am. that didn't really bother me much since his older brother gets up at 6:00 anyhow. but the past 3 mornings he's been up around 5:30am. last night i put him to bed at 7:00 instead of 6:30, thinking that if he only needs 11 hours at night, then perhaps 7:00 should be his new bedtime. do you want to guess what happened? yep, he was up even earlier than before! at 5:00am he was happily chatting in his crib. he was happy until 5:30 and then started crying for me to go pick him up. i ended up nursing him just to see if he would get sleepy again, but he was wide awake and ready to start the day.

here is our EASY:

6:00-wake and breakfast
10:30- lunch
11:00-1:30- nap (i almost always have to wake him up from it)
2:00- snack
5:00- dinner
6:00- bath, BF and in bed by 6:30

thanks in advance for your suggestions! i'm not looking for him to "sleep in" per se, i'd just really love it if he could sleep until at least 6:00 in the morning. the difference between 5:30 and 6:00 seems so huge when you're awakened that early!
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #1 on: July 29, 2010, 16:42:41 pm »
Have you tried putting him to bed earlier at night?
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #2 on: July 29, 2010, 18:50:46 pm »
like how early? i've had him in bed by 6:00 before, but never earlier than that. i guess i'm afraid that he'll be up at 4:30 instead of 5:00!
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #3 on: July 29, 2010, 21:57:31 pm »
Just thinking it was worth a try since later bedtime didn't work. I'd give 6:00 a try for the heck of it.
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #4 on: July 29, 2010, 21:59:25 pm »
Just wanted to tag along as our DS is doing the same thing:(

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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #5 on: July 30, 2010, 18:50:14 pm »
well, last night i tried 6:15 and he slept till 6:00 this morning, so fingers crossed that will work again for tonight! of course it just so happened to be the morning that dh volunteered to get up with the kids, but hey at least i got to sleep in past 7:00 :D i'll keep you posted...
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #6 on: July 30, 2010, 19:02:58 pm »
YAY!!!!!!!
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #7 on: July 31, 2010, 12:50:26 pm »
i am writing this at 5.45am, so you know it didn't work out.....he was up at 4.50 this morning after a LOVELY STTN. i re-plugged his paci and he was quiet for another 5 or so minutes. this time i decided to "swoop in" and try to avoid him waking himself up even further, so while he was still very sleepy i quietly nursed him and i thought he fell back asleep. that was around 5.15. he was dead quiet for 10 minutes, then at 5.25 he awoke chatting to himself in his crib. and that is where we are at now. i have no clue if he actually fell back asleep or not, so i'm not very sure if i should keep his morning nap at 11:00 or bump it forward a bit.

anyhow, he was in bed at 6:15 again last night and he honestly just sounds like he is done sleeping. i mean, if he was tired he wouldn't be happy in his crib right now, right?

what do you think of me cutting his nap down from 2.5 hours to 2 hours? i wouild have tried this earlier, except that my fear is that he will get super OT from so much A time surrounding his nap.

suggestions welcome!
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #8 on: August 01, 2010, 03:21:59 am »
I personally wouldn't cut back on the nap just yet. You don't want to change your plan every day or two - it takes time for changes to set it and to see real results. That consistency business ;) 
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #9 on: August 01, 2010, 14:49:59 pm »
okay, well i repeated the exact same day yesterday (was SOOOO hard stretching him to 11:00 for his nap, he was seriously tired) and he was up this morning at 5:30....except he didn't cry at all! he just made little noises in his crib and probably would have been happy in there awhile longer, but i got him up at 6:00 anyhow. i guess i don't mind the EW's so much as long as it means that i get to stay in bed till 6:00! anyhow, i get what you're saying about consistency. i'm gonna keep putting him down at 6:15 for awhile and see if anything changes.
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Re: 12 mo up before 6am...need help tweaking our routine!
« Reply #10 on: August 01, 2010, 17:23:40 pm »
ok keep us posted!
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