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PREMIE and EASY...6wks early
« on: August 06, 2010, 22:26:53 pm »
My 2nd little guy came 6 weeks early and I was bound and determined to stick to the EASY routine from the beginning. I discovered the EASY routine when his brother was 4 months old (now he's 4 years old ! time flies) He is now 8 weeks old but do I account for the early arrival and so technically he would be only 2 wks old? I thought I read somewhere in the BW books about waiting for Preemies to reach their actual due date and then start but I can't find it now.
He was doing pretty good on a 3 hour easy and I've been tracking his progress from day one but he NEVER goes past 3 hours sleep at night. Its like clockwork and he usually takes 3-4 oz at night (1am and 4am). He has been pretty consistant with 1.5 to 2 hr naps but in the past week his morning nap now will only last for 45 minutes and then he crashes in the afternoon for 3+hours.
I've been reading about so many people with 8 wk olds sleeping right past the 1am feeding and I just can break the 3 hour routine at night time.  And he ALWAYS wakes up cranky!
any help or advice would be appreciated.

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Re: PREMIE and EASY...6wks early
« Reply #1 on: August 08, 2010, 00:56:17 am »
I had a look at Tracy's book "The Baby Whisperer Solves All Your Problems" (pg 27-31, if you'd like to look up the reference), and some things came to mind regarding your LO:

A full-term baby is now considered at 37 weeks (could be a little more, depending on the child).  So, for example, my LO was born at 38 weeks, but I've always considered him full-term.  Your LO, I would guess, would be like you said: somewhere between 2-5 weeks, adjusted.  That's quite a range, though, at this point in their life.  Lots of growth spurts and development.

Tracy states in the above reference that the 3h EASY was designed for the average weight newborn--between 6.5-8 lbs.  If your LO still weighs in somewhere in that range, eating every 2.5-3h is considered normal, given that he was premature (he's got some catching up to do! :)).  But, LO will naturally probably start to move towards a 3h EASY soon.

He was doing pretty good on a 3 hour easy and I've been tracking his progress from day one but he NEVER goes past 3 hours sleep at night. Its like clockwork and he usually takes 3-4 oz at night (1am and 4am).
As I mentioned above, his body is probably trying to catch up and is working to put on the weight.  He probably will wake up this often until he's a little bit bigger (by any chance, do you know how much weighs?).

I've been reading about so many people with 8 wk olds sleeping right past the 1am feeding and I just can break the 3 hour routine at night time.
Again, as previously mentioned, he's technically not 8 weeks old, so can't last as long in between night feeds as full-term 8 wo LOs.  Tbh, it sounds like he's doing what his body needs.  My DS only weighed 6.1 lbs when he was born--5.12 when he left the hospital-- and he fed about every 3h at night.  Once he got closer to ~2 months, he was starting to drop those night feeds.

I'd be happy to take a look at your LO's day, to see if there's anything that jumps out at me.  How much is he eating during his E times?  Is he bottle or breastfed?

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Re: PREMIE and EASY...6wks early
« Reply #2 on: August 11, 2010, 05:10:19 am »
thanks for the reply; sorry I've had visitors and haven't had a chance to reply sooner.

my DS was born wieghing 6.5lbs, left hospital at 5.2 and wieghed 8.1 about 3 wks ago. He is 2 months old now. I was BF but wasn't getting enough and his growth was slowed a bit; He has been on formula for 2 weeks now.
our day usually goes something like this;

E - Wake  between 7-730 (E - 4/5 oz)
A - Activity until 8:15-8:30 (give or take)
S - until 10/1030
E - 4/5oz
A - until 11/1130
S - until 12:30-1
E - 4/5oz
A - until 2/215
S - until 3:45/4
E - 4/5 oz
A - until 530
S - until 6ish
E - 4/5oz
A - tummytime/bath
S - Bedtime 7/730

there has been some days where he has been disrupted and his routine is thrown a bit but generally it stays pretty consistent.

I usually feed him around 2hrs after last feed while he's in bed and then DF at 10/1030 (3oz). He will without fail wake up 1/130 and 4/430. He usually takes 3/4oz.

once again; any input would be appreciated. thanks so much for looking at my routine.

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Re: PREMIE and EASY...6wks early
« Reply #3 on: August 14, 2010, 13:48:50 pm »
My 5 week preemie did 2 oz every 2 hrs around the clock for at least 2 months, if not more.  That's all she could handle d/t reflux.  Her A time was wake up, change diaper, eat.  Then conk out again while being held on a shoulder.  Put to bed, repeat.  We worked from her adjusted age and that worked well for us. Does that make sense?
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Re: PREMIE and EASY...6wks early
« Reply #4 on: August 15, 2010, 16:40:20 pm »
yes it makes sense; so if I just focus on his adjusted age (3-4 wks old now instead of 8-9wks) then keep doing what I'm doing and hopefully things will fall into place okay sleep wise.

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Re: PREMIE and EASY...6wks early
« Reply #5 on: August 15, 2010, 18:53:41 pm »
Yup.  You get to use the adjusted age for about the first year or so.  No panicing when he's not doing what the "other" kids his age are doing.   ;)
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