My DD was waking up for a night feed around 2-4am. I didn't think she was hungry and was using it as a prop to go back to sleep. She too falls asleep on her own. I kid you not, as soon as we stopped the night feed, she stopped waking (although gets up early at about 6am). I did a lot of shush/pat for about an hour one night and was expecting the same the next night but didn't have to do it. This was only 3 weeks ago though and she was 9 months old...but I think I probably could have done it sooner.