Hi there, I have a 19 month old, she’s never been fond of eating but would still finish her meal (sometimes need some distraction and kisses). Recently, she’s been refusing her meals even the first spoon. She starts to get angry as soon as I place the bib on her.
But when she sees anyone else eats she always fights for a bit. And when she eats our stuff, she wants us to eat too just to ensure that those are not baby food.
I was too tired to battle with her every meal that sometimes I take the easy way out by showing her photos/videos on my phone (distract her and shuffle into the mouth), or let her out of the hair chair and chase her behind. I am afraid that this will become a bad habit. She usually eats better when she is at my parents’ place and when I’m not feeding her. But lately, that has also gone downstream.
I am not sure how much “playing” I should do with her to get her to eat, or should I just leave her in the high chair, or stop trying? I know no kids will let themselves starve, but should I stop as soon as she refused? She is not fat to begin with and I’m afraid that she’ll reduce her appetite if I don’t “keep it up”. I would share with her my dinner except she can only eat very little as she’s still not very good at chewing, she ends up sucking all the juice from the food and leave the solids in her mouth.