thank you ladies,
she is at the minder every day, she realy does love going there. she now takes a 2 hour nap there at 12:30. like you said, they all sleep at the same time. they did offer a morning nap last week but no one took it caus it was offered much to early.i told them Y woudn't as she was used to two naps around 10 and 14:00. so in the evening she is very OT, cryes through her bath and we do a 19:00 BT. she BF and falls asleep in minutes.
good knews is today she slept till 7:00.