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Offline B J

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6 week old - night sleep problems
« on: December 06, 2011, 14:15:07 pm »
DS2 is 6 weeks old. We are on a 3 hour EASY and I pretty much follow Tracy's suggested routine for a 1 month old.  During the day I try to keep him from getting OT by watching for his sleepy cues and extending his naps if he wakes early.  I have literally been sitting beside his cot the whole nap so that I can catch him if he wakes and re-settle him right away.

At night time, it is hard to keep him asleep.  He will usually wake at around 35 min or 50 min. after BT and after night feeds. So I don't know if he's UT or OT? 

It has been very tiring, as after his night feed, I spend 20 - 30 min putting him back to sleep (usually I hold him at night) and then when I put him down, he is up again after 10 or 20 min crying.  So I start the cycle again of getting him back to sleep, but if I put him down, he will wake up again.  By this time, it is usually time for another feed, and neither of us has gotten much sleep.

The only way I can get him to sleep for a good stretch (a few hours) is to put him in the car seat, but I don't want to do this as I know it's not safe.   I don't expect him to STTN, but I would like him to get some sleep before his next feed.  HELP!!!!


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Re: 6 week old - night sleep problems
« Reply #1 on: December 07, 2011, 10:39:43 am »
God, thought I was the only one! Have finally moved my 6wk old (who WAS solely breastfed but now gets a nightime bottle because I'm desperate)from sleeping on us to co-sleeping to bassinette and finally to cot. Have started an EASY about 10 days ago, which was working ok in the day and at bedtime too, (he loves his bath, massage, kick-about and swaddling help him know it's nightime) this happens at 7-7.30 and he was sleeping till 10-11pm when he'd either have a dream feed or wake for food,then through the night he woke every 3hrs for more feeds. But it's all gone nuts! Now he only sometimes sleeps from 8-10pm, waking frequently till we hit the sack at 11ish, he feeds then and I put him down deeply asleep as sleepy just means he wakes and screams, he sleeps for about an hour at most, then wakes up every 20mins or so for comfort, having dropped his dummy and this goes on so long that eventually it's time for his feed again. He also sometimes wakes and makes a pain noise (doctor said he sees little TEETH coming! So we rub newborn teething gel on his gums when he wakes, just in case, even though he may not be in pain every time...we don't want to risk it escalating and it taking an hour to calm him down). We haven't slept in a week as he cries every 20 mins. I don't expect him to STTN, just for a couple of hours. I'm quitting breastfeeding today after his 6wk check, as I can't handle the exhaustion and hope he may sleep better. Any suggestion how to proceed?

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Re: 6 week old - night sleep problems
« Reply #2 on: December 07, 2011, 19:20:20 pm »
I was thinking it could be the 6 wk growth spurt, but I think the staying asleep problems started before 6 wks, but it's all been a blur.   But it has gotten progressively worse.  Last night I ended up holding him in my arms and sleeping in the chair in his room so that we could both get some sleep.  After his 3 am feed I tried shh\patting him to sleep in his crib and he settled quickly but would have jolts every 2-3 min and then woke up crying at 40 min.  I gave up and held him to sleep for another 1.5 hr before feeding him again.

Usually for naps I will do shh/pat to get him to sleep but if it is taking a while and I don't think he's going to settle, I will hold him and pat his back until he falls asleep, as I worry if I shh/pat for too long he will get OT.  At night I will do either shh/pat or hold him depending on which I think he will respond to the best.

I worry that holding him is becoming a prop though because when I do try and put him down after he is asleep he will wake after 5 or 10 min and get upset.

Our routine roughly is:
Wake/eat 7:30 am
A 7:30 - 8:10 (start wind down at 40 min)
S 8:20/8:30 - 10:30

E 10:30
A 10:30 - 11:10
S 11:30 - 1:30

E 1:30
A 1:30 - 2:10
S 2:30 - 4:00

E 4:00
A 4:00 - 4:40
S 5:00 - 6:30

E 6:30
A 6:30 - 7:10  bath, BT routine
S 7:30

E 8:30
S 9:00 - 10:30/11:00

E 10:30/11:00 pm

The night feeds vary depending on how he sleeps.  The last nap is longer than a CN, 1 hour - 1.5 hour,  but it gives me a chance to make dinner and eat with DH and DS1.  Do you think it is too long?