My DS is 4 months and 1 week old. I have been working on numerous sleep issues of his for the past month. I finally got him on a good 4 hour EASY schedule with one morning nap, one afternoon nap and one catnap (on a good day). He used to scream everytime it was time to sleep, and I have gotten us past that now. He was waking like 12x a night, so we cut the pacifier cold turkey. It has been 3 weeks of no pacifier now. He now gets up in between 12-1ish and then at 5am each night and is hard to settle back to sleep. If I feed him a full bottle, he goes back down easier...the past couple of nights I have decided to wean the milk- so I brought it down to 5 ounces, 4 ounces, and now I am on on 3. He was pretty upset lastnight when he only got 3. His Dr. said that at his weight and his age, he should not need to eat at night- for sure not the 12/1ish timeframe. So once I get down to 0 ounces, do I do W2S to try to eliminate this 12/1ish NWing or do I do sh/pat since he is definitely looking for milk at that time since it's pretty habitual? (he has silent reflux and until we got it under control with the right meds I was feeding him A LOT at night so he is definitely waking out of habit and I am afraid after I wean the milk down he will scream and scream.) The 5am waking is tough b/c I don't want him to eat much so that his morning bottle and cereal will be out of wack.
Let me know if you have any suggestions.
THanks!