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need help with transitioning naps to crib
« on: December 31, 2011, 14:56:22 pm »
Hello!  I have a 14 wo DS.  We started on EASY about 5 weeks ago and have made great progress with our bedtimes and nights.  Now we are working on naps.  Because of reflux and congestion, I have allowed my LO to take all of his naps in his swing for the past month or so.  Both conditions have improved so I am attempting to transition him to his crib for his naps.  I have been allowing him to take his first nap of the day in his swing (usually 1.5-2 hrs, resettles independently), then I try his second nap in the crib.  He consistently wakes up after 35 min, despite attempts at resettling (w2s, shush-pat, PU/PD, HTTJ), and I can't get him back to sleep.  I'm assuming this is an OT nap so I have been decreasing his A time before this nap however he still wakes at the 35 min mark.  So I'm not sure what to do . . . should I continue to decrease his A time???  The day usually deteriorates after this nap - by the time he is hungry and nurses, his A time is too long and his next nap is also 35 min no matter where he sleeps . . . although usually his last nap of the day is at least an hour so he is OT at BT but not too OT.  He usually wakes happy from his first nap (and gets mad when I try to resettle him) but then wakes grumpy from his second (OT) nap.  He sleeps great in his crib at night and rarely needs resettling at night.

Any thoughts/suggestions?  I can post a day in EASY if that would help.  I'm tempted to let him take all of his naps in his swing for the next day or two so he can catch up on sleep. 

The swing is in the living room, BTW - I keep it dark with his white noise on - I also have a pack-n-play in the living room that he used to nap in before the congestion hit (those naps were rarely longer than 45 min) - I could also go back to using the PNP . . . ideally I would like him napping in his crib however him getting good sleep is more important. 

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Re: need help with transitioning naps to crib
« Reply #1 on: December 31, 2011, 17:01:37 pm »
Hi.  Could you post your EASY please, the 35 min could be OT or UT.
Meanwhile, I'd go for the first nap of the day in the cot if it was me as I tend to think LOs do better at this nap anyway.
He is too young for PUPD, better to use pat/shush (or adapted version, patting can aggravate reflux so a rub might be more suitable).  For a transition like this, with it not going too well just at the moment I would be prepared to stay with him for much of or all of the nap time initially.  When I transitioned my LO from his amby nest (hammock) to a cot bed I spent the first whole night with him, most of his following days naps and for about 2 or 3 nights following we had night waking which needed lots of time a resettling.  After this he was back to his normal self, independent and happy.
Do you have a cot wedge so he can sleep at an angle?  This helps reflux and might be more comfortable.

I suggest a consistent wind down (do something that is also in the BT wind down) getting him really really drowsy with adapted shush/pat in your arms, then putting down, and continuing shush/pat in the cot all the way into sleep.  If he is too upset at PD and can't settle in the cot then PU and shush/pat all the way to sleep and PD.  As he gradually gets used to this new place for naps you can reduce the amount of help gradually.

It might also help you to know that LOs learn to sleep at night much earlier than they do for naps so it is pretty normal to need more help for the day naps.