Thanks for your reply, its great to know someone is listening and may be able to offer advice
I do swaddle him but he does manage to wriggle his way out, he goes down with a paci. During the day i put him in his cot in his own room for naps and he sleeps in our room at night in his pram.
His days can vary so Ive tried to keep an eye on his EASY routine so here is his day from yesterday:
awake at 7.00am
E 3½oz @ 7.15
A Sat in chair while i got other son ready
S 8.20 - 9.10, fussed when he woke, gave paci but he wouldnt settle back
E 3½oz @ 10.15am
A Dressed and kicked around on his floor mat
S 11.15 - 12.05 gave paci to settle him back
12.35 - 12.50 gave paci to settle him back
1.20 - 2.00
E 5oz @ 2.10pm
A had another play on his floor mat
S 4.00 - 4.20 in car
E 5oz @ 5.30pm
A sat in swing chair, dressed for bed
S 7.00 - 7.30
E 2oz @ 8.30pm
A a lot of fussing and very tired at this stage so no real a time
S 10.05pm - 6.00am
There are times when he wont take any more than 3½oz and although he slept well at night the daytimes are such hard work and come evening time he is so upset that even trying to give him a bath is too much for him. I'm really at a loss as to what to do, so again i will take any advice.
Thanks
N.