Talked to pediatrician about the mucous poos. I'm now going dairy and soy free. I'm working with a LLL leader who was able to tell me based on everything I described, it sounded like a sensitivity. I'm pretty sure soy is one cause I ate some rice cakes (one ingredient was soy lecithin) and her poo had some red mucous in it.
Here's to day 1 of dairy and soy free (and most likely gluten as I wax gluten free for a while). I call it the pick it or kill it diet.
I do have questions about going dairy free but will post in another forum. Thanks ladies!
Ps. I'm amazed at how I get better support from women half way across the globe than I do in my own backyard. So glad I found this site!