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Offline vanessa c

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Wake up time
« on: January 21, 2013, 06:16:20 am »
I am considering setting a wake up time for my LO...I have been finding it has been hard to get his last nap at the right time soil does not interfere with bedtime. I was wondering what I do if my LO wakes up like 30-60 minutes prior to his wake up time. How do I make it work for him to remain on schedule for the rest of the day?

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Re: Wake up time
« Reply #1 on: January 22, 2013, 11:28:45 am »
Setting a wakeup time can be a good way to help LOs body clock to regulate, but it is important to remember that EASY was never meant to be a schedule (which means watching the clock rather than your baby) and some variation day to day is normal.  There are different ways to approach this - some mums treat any waking before ideal time as a night waking and try to resettle, or at least leave LO in their cot if they are happy, and don't start counting A time until they officially start the day.  Others will count quiet time in the cot as half A time (e.g. WU is 6.30, ideal WU is 7am so count as 15 mins of A time if LO is quiet and happy).  I never had much success with that and instead counted A time from when LO actually woke up and accepted that each day was a bit different, but I tend to have a WU 'window' - as in, I don't get DD up to start the day before 6.30am, even if that means sitting in the dark with her, and I wake her by 7am unless she is unwell.  Bear in mind the age of your LO will likely determine if you can count any of the quiet time in the crib as sleep time - for example, a four week old who wakes 30 mins before ideal time will likely get very OT if that time is counted as sleep time, whereas a 12 month old may be able to cope with that variation a lot better.  Does that help?

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Re: Wake up time
« Reply #2 on: January 22, 2013, 12:21:27 pm »
That does help, thanks. I think my LO will need the quiet time to count towards his A time, I actually did this yesterday. He woke at 715 but was happy so I let him stay in his crib, he did not start to get upset until 745, but he needed to be in bed by 9 for his nap! I will keep a 30 min window and hopefully this will start to normalize the day some for us!

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Re: Wake up time
« Reply #3 on: January 22, 2013, 14:30:58 pm »
Great, hope it works for you :)