First of all, Let me share that last night he only had 2 NW!
The night before it was 4, and my DH had to stay with him for an hour.
I have been trying to keep activity very low before BT. We bathe, eat, and then walk outside, read a book, then go to bed. I cannot get him to cluster feed. I have tried in the past and he just gets mad. My guess is that he his frustrated and impatient, and doesn't want to wait for the let down.
Here is yesterday's routine:
E. 7:10
A.
S. 9:10-9:50, 10-11
E. 11:05
A.
S. 1:25-2:10, (he was very angry, so we went outside and swung in a porch swing, but he started to rub his eyes, so we came in and tried again) 2:35-2:45, 2:50-3:30
E. 3:35
A.
S. 6:05-6:50 we actually put him down an hour before, but when we did that he started to coo and entertain himself. He seemed happy so we just let him be. He played in his crib for at least an hour before he stared to get cranky. Then we went in to sooth him, he was very upset.
A. Bath
E. 7:15
A. Swing outside, book
S. 8:20
E. 10:50 pm
E. 3:45 am
Last night was so much better than it has been. I'm concerned, however, about when and how we put him to sleep and the fact that it is impossible for him to take a nap for longer than 45 minutes without having to be soothed back to sleep. Sometimes it takes no time at all to get him back to sleep, I'd say under a minute. Other times it takes 5-10 minutes. Will he ever take long naps?