Hi Mommies and Daddies
First time to post here, and can I just say I'm glad that I stumbled upon this forum..
A bit of a background, my LO (spirited baby) is going to be 3 months this Saturday, and on 3.5 hrs to 4 hrs routine since he was 7 weeks old , & this routine isn't EASY, however it feels similar, except more like schedule than a routine, and I thought to myself after reading BW I would start EASY instead, because it is more structural and flexible than my current ones. He also has reflux, & on Losec 7.5 mg twice a day & I have to wait at least for 15 mins to half an hour before I can feed him. He's born in 41 weeks gestational (not sure if too much info) & he's bottle fed..
I started 4 hrs EASAS a couple of days ago, & its seem to be going downhill. On sunday, 28/7 the routine look like below, however it changed again for Monday & Today, except the wake up time...
W: 6.10
E: 6.30
A: 6.45 - 7.40 (inc wind down)
S: 7.40 - 8.50 ( he still looked tired & restless )
A: 9 to 10
S: 10 to 10.50
E: 11
A: 11.15 - 12.15
S: 12.15 - 1.40 ( resettled at 1.10 and slept till 1.40)
A: 1.40 - 2.15
S: 2.15 - 3.10
E: 3.15
A: 3.30 - 4.30
S: 4.30 - 5.45 ( fussy for 1/2 hr, & this is the hardest nap for him to go to) - everyday is a battle to do his late afternoon nap, most of the time I walk him in the pram so he could go to sleep. Is it witching hour?
A: 5.45 to 6.30
E: 6.30 - 6.45
S: 7
DF : 11.30 plus NF at 3.50 (normally around 2-3)
The issue that I'm having is everyday is different with my lo, there is no consistency with him
, is this normal for easy? sometime he can go for longer nap, ie 2.5 hrs and i dont need to adjust the A time, & if he only slept for 45 mins in his late arvo nap, he still looks tired, & I have to put him down by 6.30 to avoid OT, and I'm not sure if it was because his last feed before BT was too early (6pm) or what, but last night he had 3 NWs inc DF (11, 1.15, & 4.50), is it growth spurt? Normally he only has DF, and 1 NF. if so, how long does growth spurt last for 12 weeks or 3 months old? Should I altered his routine to 3.5 hrs instead? And do you think he slept too much during the day hence all the NW? & how do I stop his NW? should I introduce cluster feed, but i read in BW Tracy mentioned to stop cluster feed at 8 weeks, so I'm not sure...
I'm also scared that I'm feeding him too much (900 ML/day)
:-\And how do I make him wake up at 7 instead of 6? Most importantly how do I make his routine consistent? Do you think he is too young still to have a consistent routine? Sometime i feel like I'm expecting too much from my lo
& when his reflux flares up i feel like I'm not cut out to be a Mom
Also if he wakes up at 4 or 5am should I feed him his normal quantity of milk then and again at his WT? And how much do you normally give for cluster feed?
I desperately need help with his routine, i havent been out and about since he was 7 weeks old because I'm scared to tamper with his routine, & when I did try to go out such as Dr appointments, it isn't worth it because he become unsettle for most of the day and sometime night time too
Welcome any suggestions and advise....PLEASE
Thank you