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How many minutes is ideal for a successful BF dream feed?
« on: August 01, 2013, 06:36:01 am »
My baby girl is 15 weeks old. We've been using EASY for about 3 weeks. Mostly it's going well, but sleeping is still tricky. I'm focused on making her naps longer and decreasing crazy night feed times. When she falls asleep around 8:00 she will wake at one of these times: 12:35, 2:35 or 4:35 for a night feed. So I'm starting to consistently implement a 11:00 dream feed with an 8:00 sleep time.

What I can't figure out is what is an ideal length of time for her to be on my breast? I'd rather not pump and bottle feed for my sake. (DH can't do it for me so its easiest for me to give her my breast.) She does latch and drink and does not wake up, so all good there, but she only stays on for about 10 minutes. Then that mouth is clamped shut (none of my cheek, back or hand rubbing will budge it open). Normally she eats well and aggressively for 20 minutes at each feeding.

Any thoughts?
Thank you!
Marnee/Sophie's Mom

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Re: How many minutes is ideal for a successful BF dream feed?
« Reply #1 on: August 01, 2013, 16:55:09 pm »
Night feeding can be quicker since LO is relaxed and there are no distractions. If she's nursing for 10 minutes and you feel that she was eating (not just sucking), I would think that's enough.

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Re: How many minutes is ideal for a successful BF dream feed?
« Reply #2 on: August 01, 2013, 21:23:52 pm »
I agree with Goldmom. You can't make her take more than she wants.
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Re: How many minutes is ideal for a successful BF dream feed?
« Reply #3 on: August 02, 2013, 03:51:14 am »
Thank you for your experienced advice. This helps me feel more confident!