Hi Buttonbobs,
It was a special sleep interview with tracy hogg, here's the bit I got it from, I may be taking it in completely the wrong context tho!
Q: So if night wakings are starting again, and it’s clearly hunger, you would feed him that night, but the very next day start trying to increase the calories?
T: Yes, get the extra calories in wherever you can. Don’t even think about the clock. So if they get up at 7 and feed, you give them a couple more ounces at, say, 9. Whatever you fed them in the night you’ve got to make up the next day – let’s say he woke up at 2am and gulped down 8 ounces. Then you’ve got to get 8 extra ounces in the next day. It doesn’t mean in one bottle or feed. It may mean you’ve got to add an ounce to every bottle/feed they’re having in the day. Say they’re having 4 feeds/bottles, that’s an extra 4 ounces. Then, say after an hour that they’ve fed, you give them an ounce. And then another hour later, you give them another ounce. And then it’s not until about the third day that they’ll start to adjust during the day so they can take all the extra they need at regular feed times. But if they’ve been sleeping through the night, and suddenly they start waking, I could put money on it that it’s hunger, and it’s calories.
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I understand what you mean now about letting him get up if he doesn't settle after 15/20 mins from a short nap, and shortening the next A time, so thank you for clarifying that part, but what if he again has a short nap and wont resettle? I find I'm getting to like 3pm, he's had 2 short naps and is getting tired by 4:30? How far forward should I bring bedtime etc?
Sorry for all the questions!
On a good note though, we've had an okish day today, and DS hasn't woken at all since he went to bed at 7:15 eeeeeeek
I know the routine is still nowhere near where it needs to be, can you see any patterns or where I need to change?
WU and E 7am 5oz
A 7:15am
S 8:53am (fell asleep on playmat whilst I was drying my hair) (I know this was far too short an A time) (40 mins ish)
A 10am
E 11am 7oz
A 11:15am
E 12:15pm 1oz
S 12:25pm (struggled to keep him awake for 10 mins after having his bottle) (45 mins) shush pat for 5 mins
A 1:50pm
E 2:50pm 8oz
A 3pm
S 4:30pm (30 mins)
A 5pm
E 5:30pm 4.5oz
A 5:45pm
E 7pm 3.5oz tried to put to bed (didn't do bath etc as he was obviously shattered) kicked right off
E 7:10pm 3oz
wind down then bed
asleep by 7:20
and still STILL sleep :-)