Thanks everyone, im not under any pressure to get her off the breast i just am getting a bit,well,feel a bit tied down. Im very lucky as i don't need to worry about getting back to work,we moved here when i was 8 months pregnant so no job yet!! So i am completely free to continue BF but im wanting to stop at a year, was originally 6 months, and thought maybe weaning in the day would set me on the right track, but im definately having doubts and questions and also feel a bit guilty, if i can, why would i stop BF!!! Sorry to ramble!!