I am brand new to this board and I think I've been making a muck of things. This is my 3rd child, so you'd think I'd have it down by now, but every child is different, right?
My DS is 9 mos today and stopped sleeping well right around the 6 mos mark. We were CSing, but he started waking to nurse all night long and neither one of us was getting any sleep, so I started the transition into his crib all night and attempted to night wean. He has always, since birth, been a cat napper and it took us a long time to get into any kind of routine. Right now I have him on just one nap per day and an early bedtime, but after reading around here, that seems to have been a mistake on my part. However, when he was on two naps I couldn't get him to sleep longer than an hour at a time, and now he'll sleep up to three on a good day. He was also waking every 1.5 hours, but now has gone down to one wake, but it's increased to 1-3 hours long at about 3:30 am. At this point, I'm not sure which one is worse.
I have been at my wits end and the past five days I have been trying a CC, CIO method where I go in every five, ten, fifteen minutes and pick him up, calm him down, pat and soothe for however long it takes and then try to leave the room again. Sometimes he will lie there awake with eyes wide open, but calm for up to fifteen minutes and doesn't even notice I leave, but other times his head pops right up and he starts crying.
Needless to say, I am extremely sleep deprived. Any help would be very welcome.
How old is your child? 9 mos
What’s his/her daily routine? 7 am: wake up, nurse, breakfast of solids, play, 10/11am: nap until 12/2, nurse, play, 5 pm: dinner, bath, bedtime between 5:30/6 pm. DF @ 10pm, wakes up around 3:30 for anywhere between 1-3 hours.
What’s nap routine? nursing, rocking and patting
How long are naps? Anywhere from 1.5- 3 hours
What's bedtime routine? Time? Dinner, bath, story, nurse & rock around 5:30/6
Do you bottle or breastfed?? EBF
How much? or how long? On demand
If breastfed.. one side or both?? (at each feed) If I'm full, just one.
How many wakes per night? Down to 1 really long one
What’s your LO like when waking at night? How long is he/she up? He wakes up fussing and then it turns into standing and crying. Sometimes after soothing it turns into calm and wakeful, but usually generally unhappy to be awake. He's up anywhere from 1-3 hours.
When you go to him/her is she fussing or crying? Or is it a mantra cry? crying
What have you tried to settle?? I have tried nursing, rocking, patting, and he also he has white noise playing in his room.
What do you do for A time and how long is it? A time is playing with his sisters, reading stories, cruising, etc.
Are there developmental issues such as teething or milestones? He has 4 teeth now, so probably has some more coming in, and has been cruising for months now. Possibly gearing up to walk, but it doesn't seem like it.
Do they have a prop? If so what is it? no
Do they have a lovie? no
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