Different things work for different babies (and parents of course). Most of the time we bathed and then fed so DS fall asleep on the bottle (many parents here let their LO fall asleep just with the BT feed because it helps LO calm down for the night) but I remember we had a couple of months in the beginning that DS was so hungry at bath time that he was screaming through it. So I gave him a bottle before, then bath and then a small top up before BT.