Hello,
DS arrived 5 days a go and as EASY worked so amazingly well with my DD, I'd like to do it with him too.
As he's so young, we don't yet have a regular BT or wake up time - I'm not really sure what counts as our wake up time at the mo - but during the day, he's on a 3 hr EASY (he was 8lb 12oz at birth), is going down for good naps too. I'm just a bit confused about a couple of things.
1. BW book gives an example EASY for a 4 week old (which I assume i apply to him even though he's so young?) but seems to advise 3 normal naps a day and then the last two are cat naps with cluster feeds. The naps he's having at the mo he seems to be waking up from naturally and I'm just letting him wake naturally day and night. So should I start 'making' him do cat naps by waking him up early from the last two naps of the day?
2. Cluster feeds and DF - he is sleepy/falls asleep for most feeds and I cannot, no matter how hard I try, get him to feed when he's sleepy - so I really doubt I could do the DF. And the other thing is, he's doing that weird thing where normally in the early hours of the morning he has an attack of wind/gripe and cries on/off for about 1-2 hours. It's definitely griping/windy pains as he's pumping his legs, grimacing, squirming and then as soon as he passes wind/burps he relaxes and this goes on and on.... It's like the wind builds throughout the day and he gets these attacks at night. So I'm worried that if I cluster feed him, this will make the wind worse??
3. At night time, if he wakes anywhere near the 3 hour mark, I feed him as I'm assuming he's too young for me to be trying to get him back to sleep rather than feed? Is that right? The whole gripey/windy episode makes it hard to see a pattern at night times yet. So he's just kind of on a 3 hour EASY day and night.
Any advice would be much appreciated! Oh, and any tips on relieving the wind attacks would DEFINITELY be appreciated!
Thanks