After her 45min nap, I was in and out of her room for the the rest of the nap time (45 min ) trying to settle. She'd also settle herself but would wake 10, 20min. So would I count that resettling period as part of her A time, as that remaining 45 min she didn't sleep well. Anyhow I put her down again after getting her up at 10am at 11, and she woke crying after 20min.
Man, this is really tough, especially with a 3 year old to look after too. She used to nap so well and it's like an off switch has just been pressed on her.