Hi All,
I am new to this forum, so please bear with me.
My LO is 9 weeks old and I have been trying to get him into a routine since he was four weeks old. I understand that it can be difficult and I may be expecting too much, however I feel that my baby just wont settle for my routine and wants his way
I have a few problems which I cannot seem to resolve:
He has thrush from birth and I have been giving him Miconazole gel, however it doesn't seem to have made much of a difference. I'm not sure what to do now.
He has always been quite a windy baby so I try and wind him as often as I can, but this can mean his feed time increases to ridiculous times and by then he is very tired and annoyed.
He is a sleepy feeder and very rarely stays awake during his feed, I have tried putting him on the play mat, rousing him by tickling his feet, opening his nappy, all he does is cry and wants to go back to sleep.
He wakes up during the night at 3-4, I offer him water but he isn't interested and barely takes his full feed without fretting, this feed can take me up to 45mins, after this feed he is very unsettled at 5am and very rarely goes into deep sleep mode. The room is dark and quiet, so I am not sure what i can do to aid him sleeping better and until 7am.
His late afternoon feed (2.30pm) is quite tough as he will take the milk, however he wants to go back to sleep within an hour and then he gets up at an awkward time, ie too early for Bedtime and too late for him to stay up until 7pm.
When he is awake he is very very active and plays and smiles alot, however he can barely stay up for more than an hour without getting cranky, miserable and tired.
At birth he weighed 6.8lbs has steadily gained weight and now weighs 10.8lbs at 8 weeks.
His feeding times are 7/7.30am 150ml/top up of 60ml; 10.15/10.30am 150ml; 2.15/2.30pm 120ml; bedtime 4.30/5pm & 5.45/6pm split feed 180ml; 10.30pm 180ml; 3/4am 120ml
His nap times vary8.30/8.45am - 9.20/10am11.30/11.45am - 2/2.15pm3.30/3.45pm - 4.30pm sometimes snoozes at 3.30pm for 10mins only 7pm - 10/10.30pm (woken by us) 11.30pm - 3/3.30am. I hear him wincing from 2.45am sometimes and I always wonder if it's hunger related or just habit related as he takes more than his daily quota between 7am -11pm.
The nap times are not always consistent and can vary depending on his tiredness level.
I have been following the routine for nearly four weeks, I have seen some changes, however I always feel instead of him becoming predictable he is becoming the opposite
I do think he is a genuinely sleepy baby and cannot seem to stay awake for more than 1.5hours MAXIMUM, however I have no idea how to eliminate all my problems ie sleepy feeder, cranky when I wake him for his feed, night time waking,
Maybe I am expecting miracles, I would really appreciate any advice I cant get from the lovely parents/carers/guardians out there
Lots of hugs
Bhavs x