Thanks for your input, it's helpful to know I need to at least start with his corrected age and adjust from there.
My DD has dance & gymnastics 2 times a week at around 930 and we're usually out until 12ish, she also goes to daycare for a few hours 1 or 2 days a week usually 10-1. Currently DS naps in the carrier during the classes for the most part so thats ok so far but they're only 45 mins and I guess I'm just thinking about down the road when he'll be napping longer than that (fingers crossed). Best to take it one day at a time for now I suppose
I will check out the FAQs you mentioned, thank you.
He is doing pretty well as far as sleeping in his crib goes, he's there all night and actually previous to last week was doing at least 1 nap a day as well. He was even self soothing and falling asleep on his own for about a week! I made the mistake of mentioning how awesome it was to my Mom and I must have jinxed it haha. Last week while we were away I wore him literally every daylight hour as he was so miserable and would scream otherwise. Yesterday's naps were awful and last night his sleep was pretty good but he awoke at 4am was up and super fussy, it took me until 6 to settle him and then only slept until 630 *yawn*.
I do have the wonder weeks app but its set for his actual age not his corrected age so the leaps are all off. I wonder if I should reset it for his EDD so it's a bit more accurate?
I'm sure I'll be posting again
thanks again for talking me through this!