My DS had his bedtime bottle until he was 2.5- he was very attached to it! We made sure teeth were always cleaned after the bottle though and it was the only bottle he had. Funnily enough we also got rid of his when he had a bad cough, the coughing made him sick at bedtime after the milk so we stopped it and never gave it back. We only gave milk at bedtime if he asked from that point on.
With DD I just swapped her bedtime milk bottle to a sippy cup of milk one evening when she was about 16 months, she took to it with no fuss and then just stopped wanting it after a month or so.
Remember too that at 14 months they don't *need* liquid milk, it's not a feed now, it's a drink. It is a convenient way to get the calcium in them but if they have a balanced diet they only need about 12oz of dairy (milk/cheese/ yoghurt) a day, it doesn't have to be milk. I've just realised that my two have only had a milk drink at bedtime a handful of times in the last 5 years since DD dropped hers
How time flies!!
Laura
Laura