Hello,
My just turned 3 DD has been waking in the night crying/screaming for last couple of months, we have had a lot of big things happen, dropped nap early February, Husband rushed into hospital for 2.5 weeks with bacterial meningitis mid march, started pre-school 2 days a week end of april, I started back to work last week and we've started potty training!.
It is not every night but last night was not good, woke 10:30pm sobbing, sat up, I went in and she had laid down sideways and wouldn't let me lay her back on pillow and cover her but wouldn't let me leave room, kept crying saying 'stay, don't leave me'. Husband went in and she really lost it, took ages to calm and wouldn't go back in bed, I got her into bed and she slept till 3am where woke crying again then again at 5and trying to get out of cot bed really upset, ended up she slept on her floor till 7:30 when her light came on.
She has always self settled to sleep with her rabbit lovie, she now has a nightlight in her room. Not sure if the shadows are scaring her or the fact that she now watches more tv. Never used to but I have a 1 year old and with her not napping now it is a quite time when he is napping to give me a break.
ON a good day routine:
7ish up
8 Breakfast
10:30 fruit
12ish lunch
2ish snack
4:30/5 tea, drink of milk after,
Bath, stories, song and in bed
7ish left in room, after 'change my water' 'another cuddle' 'make it lighter' etc.!
Is it just everything that's been happening and it'll sort itself out, how best to deal with these wakings?