He also had bad wind and abit of a reflux!! Too much going on!
Ah ok - that would have been useful to know!
Taking bigger feeds at night is typical of reflux - how is it being treated? Given your nights aren't great it could be the reflux causing problems.
I think we should go cold turkey on dummy and and as you said not try to feed before 4 hrs at night and use PU PD it's going to be hard!!
Any thoughts or advice?
I wouldn't ditch the dummy to be honest, sucking a dummy helps the reflux as the swallowing helps keep the acid down. Have you tried ssh/pat at all? If you haven't that's the first thing to try as PU/PD should be used when you have tried other things. PU/PD isn't greta for refluxers either as it can aggravate reflux - all the up and down sloshes the acid around. He's also a touch young, PU/PD is better for babies over 4 months.
Good you have got bigger feeds in the day though! That's progress, it will take a while to have an impact on the nights, you won't get instant results so keep at it.