My 12 week girl gets fed at 5:30, 8, and a dreamfeed at 10, and sleeps till 3 or 4 each night till she starts violently thrashing in her crib, going to the bathroom. it wakes her up each time. i change her then (in the dark, not talking at all), but she is wide awake smiling at me.
i nurse her at that time, in the dark, hoping she'll fall back asleep, but it never works. she is ready to start her day at 3am.
on two occasions in her lifetime she did not poop at this hour, and she slept till 6.
is there some way to push back her schedule? or am i expecting too much and eventually she'll "normalize?" is there anything i can do?