My 3 month old son does fairly well with nap times, and is very easy to put down for a nap. As soon as he yawns, I grab his blankie, his pacifier and we sit in the rocker, his face buried in my chest, sucking on his binkie, while I hum. I can usually get him down within 5 minutes and he's awake but drowsy. I'm battling 45 minute naps, but he seems to be doing better. He's been down now for 1.75 hours and I've had to go in a few times to pat his tummy and put his binkie in.
At night, however, he turns into a little devil! We have a bathtime, story, nurse/bottle routine (I was worried that he wasn't getting enough milk at the end of the day so I give him a bottle of 2-3 ounces of breast milk and then nurse so that I know he's getting enough and not waking up because of hunger) at around 9:00 (he usually seems sleepy then) and he goes down like a charm. But then he wakes up at 10:00 and is just wild for 2-3 hours. The last 2 nights I fought with him until 1:00 in the morning. By this time, I'm exhausted and frustrated and can't deal with it anymore. Last night I just let him scream until he would settle down with his binkie. When he's really screaming like that, usually the binkie just upsets him more and he really wants to nurse, but then he just kicks and pulls off and goes back on, then pulls off, wiggles and goes back on, endlessly.
Sometimes during this time I'll get him to sleep, only to have him wake back up again 5 - 10 minutes later. Some nights he wakes up and falls back asleep 4 or 5 times before he finally falls asleep for good.
I have no problems with him once he's asleep for good -- he wakes up anywhere between 4 and 6 to nurse and then goes back to sleep until between 7 - 9 , depending on how late he finally went to sleep.
What am I doing wrong?! Please help!