DD is 4 1/2 months old and at her 4 month checkup, my pediatrician suggested that at her weight (15 lbs), she no longer needs a middle of the night feed and to cut it out because at this point it is out of habit, not hunger. She suggested that I let her CIO, which I actually am trying but I am not consistent with it and I hate to hear her cry. Here is how I am doing CIO now... when she cries at night, I wait a few minutes before going in - sometimes she will go back to sleep, but if not, then I go in, pat/shhhh her but that makes her even more mad, so I have resorted to 'accitental parenting' (oops) and am giving her a paci. That usually calms her down and I stay with her until she is half asleep, usually a couple of minutes. She does wake up 20 to 30 minutes later for the next few hours, usually in between the hours of 12am and 3am. For some reason after 3, she can go until 6:30ish. I am basically getting up 5 to 6 times a night to plug her paci back in, each time letting her go a few more minutes but never more than 10 minutes.
She is in transition to the 4 hour easy - we're halfway through and she does pretty well with her daytime routine, and putting her down at night. I dreamfeed her at 10:30ish and she goes right back down.
I used to dreamfeed, and then she would wake at 2 and 5 and I would feed her, but then I decided that was going to become a habit (as suggested the ped) so I went to her plan but it has been 3 nights that I have not fed her at night but I am not sure if it is working - if anythign she is waking up several more times a night for me to plug her paci back in.
I feed her on one side - I always have - for each feeding. Should I start to give both sides?
What are your suggestions for eliminating the middle of the night feedings so she won't wake and need a paci?