Hey everyone,I wonder if anyone can help? My DD who is 21 weeks old has never been the greatest sleeper day or night. Today I decided to attempt PuPd which for the first nap worked well (10 mins to get to sleep) slept for 32 mins (which is normal for her) 20 mins of PuPd and slept for another 32 mins! With the pick up - do you do it if she is whingeing but not crying? or do you just wait it out? Also, before today I have been doing the ultimate Accidental parenting but i am not sure how to break this.
Before her naps I was putting her on the breast as this is the only way I can guaruntee she gets enough milk during the day. I weaned her at 16 weeks as I thought when I return to work her sleep pattern would have improved (at night) beacuse she would have a fuller tummy and would in theory sleep for longer periods. This hasnt made the blindest bit of difference. BUT here is the problem:- DD has milk via breast on waking which is usually 6am and she then refuses to eat breakfast until around 9am (as she has a nap at 8am but has a bf to go to sleep for 32 mins!!!!!.) she then has another bf at around 11am and has another 32 min nap.
Typical day:-
6am - Bf (plays for 20 mins and then starts to get cross)
7am - get up washed and dressed
8am - bf for nap
830 ish - up to play
9 - 10 - breakfast
11am - bf then nap
1130 - ish up to play
1300 - bf then nap
1330 - 1430 - lunch
1400 ish - play
1530 bf then nap for 32 mins
1600 play
1700 supper
1800 bath
1830 quiet time with mummy & daddy
1900 Bf then bed
I know it is not really a strict routine day but because of her irratic naps I have to follow her sleep windows. The problem is she will not
Bf at any other times now.
If I bf before a meal she will not eat the food. If I try after she refuses as she is full. Nights are not much better she usually wakes after 45 mins after going down and is easy to resettle with a rub on the back
then doesnt wake until 1130pm for DF. Then she is usually up anytime between 0130am and 330am for a full bf then sometimes 430am for half bf and then 6am for full bf.
I dont know how to structure feeds any better for both solids and bf.
I live by the sea and take her out for lovely long walks to get fresh air and she has a door bouncer which she uses for 20 mins 3 times a day. She does loads of tummy time and differnet activities throughout the day.
To wind down I take her upstairs and we sit quietly for a few mins before bf.
I am at a loss.
Please help!!