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11 month old would rather play than eat....
« on: June 07, 2006, 00:26:16 am »
My 11mo old lo is soooo active, crusing playing he would rather play than eat.  Solids don't seem to be as much of a problem as they were.  His 7th tooth cut through the bottom gum yesterday.

I have to feed his bottles while watching Baby Einstein or he'd only take 3 oz at most and push the rest away.  Needless to say I hate to do it.  He is still getting 50/50 EBM and homo.  I have tried faster teats, different rooms, different environments and no go.  I tried his sippy and will only take water from it (no milk).

I feel like a bad mommy but if I don't feed him this way he won't take his bottle.  the only bottle he seems to take fine is the first bottle of the day.

he has 3 bottles a day and his schedule is as follows:

530-6 wake up and bottle (6-7 oz EBM and homo mix 50/50)
700-730 solids (7T cereal mix with 3 oz EBM, 4T fruit, cheerios) sips water in sippy
900 nap (1.15-1.5hours)
1100 solids (6T- pasta and cheese mix with beef or chicken stew homemade plus 2T fruit and baby yoghurt) with sips water in sippy
130 bottle (3oz only but with Einstein 5-6oz)
200 nap (1-1.5hrs)
330-4 snack cheerios, sweet potato puffs, yoghurt
500 solids (same as lunch)
715 bottle 3oz only but with Einstein 5-6oz
bed usually asleep by 730-745


Does anyone else go through this?? Is this a phase??  What do I do?
How do I get him to take milk in his sippy--I do want him off bottles and he will take water from it so i know he can do it.
Also how many BM's are normal at this age--he usually does 2-3. 

Thanks,

Sabine :-\

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Re: 11 month old would rather play than eat....
« Reply #1 on: June 07, 2006, 01:18:08 am »
This is totally normal!  :) The world is so exciting to them at this age - exploring takes president over eating! I wouldn't feel bad feeding with Baby Einstein on. A lot of people do the same thing! Regarding the sippy - when do you plan on introducing cow's milk? My LO would not take formula from her sippy but would take cold cow's milk. So at 11 months (per my pediatrician's advice) I started putting cow's milk in the sippy only (still formula in the bottles). It took awhile for her to get used to it, but by twelve months she got the hang of it, so I dropped the bottles and she started drinking more milk from the sippy. Persistence is the key. My LO has 2-3 BM now, totally normal. Hope that helps a bit!  :)
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Re: 11 month old would rather play than eat....
« Reply #2 on: June 07, 2006, 01:51:02 am »
Thanks for the reply!! I have started mixing EBM with homo and lo will take it in the bottle but when i move it to sippy he pushes it away.  Any suggestions on how to get him to take it??  I plan to continue mixing the two as I have 3 months of frozen EBM I still wish to use up.  I have tried different temperatures too.  He will hold his sippy sometimes and others wants me to hold it....any suggestions that way? ;D

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Re: 11 month old would rather play than eat....
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2006, 00:18:03 am »
This is what Tracy says in her book about Sippy cups

Trainer Cups: I’m a Big Kid Now!
 

Around the time you start thinking about introducing solid food, you should also think about getting your child used to a trainer cup, so that he can make the transition from sucking his liquids down through a nipple to drinking like the big kids. It too, is part of allowing your child to grow up, to go from being fed to eating on his own. As I mentioned earlier, some breastfeeding mums go straight from breast to trainer cup. Others introduce a bottle early on, or later and also give their children a trainer cup at the same time.

When a mother says to me, “I just can’t get my child to use a trainer cup”, I wonder how hard she’s trying, what mistakes she’s made in her attempts to teach her child how to use it, and whether she expects overnight results. As always, I ask my questions:

At what age did you first try to introduce it? Even if a baby is on a bottle and breast, at six months, it’s important to try out a trainer cup. You can also give her a plastic cup, but a trainer cup is better because it has a Spout that controls the flow. Your child can hold it herself, too, which promotes her independence. (Never ever give a glass to a baby or young child, not even up to four or five years old. I’ve seen too many chil¬dren rushed to the emergency room with glass in their lips and tongue.)

How often did you try to give it? You have to give your child three weeks to a month of daily practice for him to get used to a trainer cup. It will take longer if you don’t give it every day.

Did you try different types? Few babies immediately take to a trainer cup. If yours doesn’t like it at first, remember that it’s new and foreign to him. There are also so many trainer cups on the market now - some have a spout and others a straw. Breast—feeding babies often do better with a straw type of trainer cup. Regardless of the type you buy first, try one stick with for at least a month. Resist switching from one back to the other.

In what position do you hold your baby when giving him a trainer cup? Many parents hand their baby a trainer cup while he is sitting in a high chair or booster seat and expect him to know what to do. Instead, you should sit your baby on your knee, facing outward. Guide his little hands onto the handles and help him pick the cup up to his mouth. Do it gently, and do it at a time when he’s in a good mood.

How much—and what kind of—liquid do you put into the cup? Here’s where I see a lot of parents go wrong: They put too much liquid into the trainer cup, so it’s too heavy for the baby to bold.  I recommend no more than an 25 ml (an ounce) of water, pumped milk, or formula to begin with. Avoid juice, because your baby does not need the extra sugar. You also risk that she’ll always associate  the trainer cup with sweet liquid and refuse all others.


Okay, you say I’ve already made that mistake! She’s now using the trainer cup like a champ but refuses to drink milk in it. You can’t go cold turkey on her  - she’ll get upset, perhaps start associating the trainer cup with a negative experience, and she might even get dehydrated (especially if she’s been weaned from breast and doesn’t take a bottle). Start by offering her two cups of liquid at her meal. In one, have 25 ml (an ounce) of the liquid you’ve been giving her - say juice or water - and in the other pour 5()ml (two ounces) of milk. After she has a sip of the water, take that cup away try to give her the milk. If she refuses, leave it and try an hour later. Even if she’s already proficient, try sitting her on your knee for a drink. As with most things,  if you persist, ~and try to make it a fun, loving experience, instead of seeing it as a skill you have to teach her immediately, you’re more likely to be successful.

As with weaning, when you see your baby with a trainer cup, you might have mixed feelings, because he looks older. That’s okay - most mums do. Just let go and enjoy the journey.
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