Just went from the first carry seat to the next one up. We bought the Graco something rather and it is still rear-facing. DD is about 20 lbs. My concern is her neck when asleep while in the seat. I caught a glimpse of her today and to my horror her neck is almost 90 degrees forward flexed!!! That was just awful to see. Does anyone know of a way to correct this while still having the seat rear-facing, which I would prefer as long as possible? We have a towel rolled up under the seat to get the right angle, so I don't think there's more we can do on that end. Help anyone?