Paula, ds is milk intolerant. He can cope with cheese, butter, etc, but not whole milk. It's not ear/throat problems he has with it, it's his bowels (I can't wait to tell him when he's older how much people all over the world know about his bowels
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He gets really runny poos, and a terrible nappy rash. He also seems to get tummy 'cramps' at night.
I agree with Karen about eliminating it from his diet for a couple of weeks - that's easier than getting him tested.
What we give ds:
Soy yoghurt - AlproSoy (the raspberry and vanilla flavour is the least 'lumpy'). Ds loves this
Rice milk - Rice Dream (tesco do their own, but it's very 'bitty' and the bottles are a bugger to clean)
Can get both of these in Tesco.
I have upped the amount of fat in his diet. He gets avocados (has to be mixed into things b/c he doesn't like it) and I mix extra olive oil into most of the food I make him. Also, I use 'proper' butter in his sandwiches and on his veggies (such a lucky boy, I love proper butter), but I make sure it's the no added salt kind.
HTH, I'm happy to answer any more questions if you have them