With my los we always went into their bedrooms, turned on the sound machine, changed diaper and sat in the rocking chair for a few minutes. When I started to see their eyes closing I would lay them down. Now they are older (3yrs and 9mos) and with my baby we just walk in, turn on the white noise give her blankie and lay her down. It took a long while to get to that point though. Whatever you decide to do....it doesn't have to be long or fancy. Just do it constistently each time. GL. Let us know how it goes.