Thanks for the feedback. We had another 45 minute nap today.
And she is in a miserable mood.
As for activities, we are in a playgroup where we go to the park daily and she has a babysitter for three hours a day. They color, read, do bubbles, and go run around out on the grass.
She does have her "I will go back to sleep" cry and we don't rush in when it is that one. Then there is the "OMG, someone is trying to kill me" scream which is how she wakes up from every nap and in the morning. She won't calm down until she sees me.
Her night sleep is really anywhere from 11-13 hours. It doesn't seem to matter which end of the spectrum, her naps are unaffected.