Hello all you lovely moms!
I have a 10-week-old daughter who breastfeeds every 2 hours during the day and typically only takes catnaps. She does sleep most of the night, which is due to my dh, who decided early on that I needed more sleep, so he feeds her a HUGE amount around midnight and then she sleeps in her crib until 5:30AM, wakes and feeds a little, then sleeps (with me in bed) another 2 hours. (And sometimes even another 2 hours after the 7:30AM feed.)
The big bottle feed at midnight is up to about 4 oz of breastmilk + 3 oz formula right now. I'm positive she's not getting 7 oz. at any other feeding. Typically I can only pump about 2 oz. even if she hasn't fed recently. (The 4 oz she drinks at night are from 3 pumping sessions.) I think she's pulling out more like 3-4 oz when she works at breastfeeding for 40 minutes, but still it's not 7 oz.
So now I'm trying to lengthen the time between feedings (to 2.5 hours initially), keep her from taking catnaps on the breast, and getting her to go down for naps with shhh-patting. The shh-patting has worked once or twice, and the other times she gets close to sleeping and I get really tired.
My question is, how much is that big midnight feed going to keep her from establishing a good schedule the rest of the day? Do I need to try to reduce the size of that feed while working on these other changes, or can I wait and address that a little later? I'd prefer to wait until later since my dh has a nice routine working for him and that little bit of sleep keeps me sane, I think.
Thanks, -Mama Berger